I once went to a big theatre so see a medium and there were over 400 in there the medium could not see any of us for the stage lights and he had people with him in the audience with radio mikes that came to you if yougot a message. Well he asked if anyone knew a mr jenkins and lots of hands went up including mine (my stepfathers name) and he said this man was yorkshire. Well they came to me with the mike (only yorkshire lass in there it was i n wales) and Steven (the medium) said he had a message for me and it was *aye lass I teck me hat of thee . thars doing a grand job* I was looking after my mum at the time who had a stroke and its just the sort of thing my stepdad would have said. To cap it all he then told me he had a cat with no tail called Leo that had passed on and gave a description of him and yes I had a cat with no tail called Leo and he died age 19, can not find any other explanation except he was talking to spirit. just thought you might be interested.