Entirely agree. The only way you can promise not to do it again, when you don't know what "it" is, is to do nothing... so leave. That's not a good outcome. And by putting the burden on users to explain what's happened every time, ebid are rather taking the good will of the forum members for granted. Is there a simple "read this before you list" at least, that new sellers can be pointed towards when making their first auction? A widget that says "I see you've never listed before... please read this ten point check list" or similar would be a boon.